Irreconcilable differences – By Sheena Roy
The term Irreconcilable differences is used when significant differences exist between a married couple, and the differences are so great and beyond resolution as to make the marriage unworkable, and the law grants a divorce the couple.
The difference here, however is that only one party claims irremediable or irretrievable breakdown while the other says everything is fine the way it is and we should stay together. The impasse by itself is an irreconcilable difference in the path of clean de-merger or bifurcation of Telangana from Andhra Pradesh.
Typically in these cases, a no fault divorce is granted if both parties agree. In this case, Telangana claims the fault sorely lies with the Andhra and Seema rulers.
On the other hand, for the Andhra people, the bone of contention is not so much the divorce of TG, but the claim of joint property in Hyderabad. They claim that they invested 53 years in Hyderabad and they want Hyderabad to be a Union Territory, a free zone. Telangana people argue that greater than 400 years of history binds them to Hyderabad and since it lies in the middle of Telangana and can not be wrested from them at any cost.
The tug-of-rope between the two is causing a major headache for the U.P.A govt and becoming a classic catch-22 situation. If they go ahead and bifurcate the state, they may lose the vote of Costa and Seema districts. If they don’t, they will lose miserably in the Telangana districts. Added to all this is the fact that in the recent 2009 assembly elections, every single party in their manifestos promised to give Telangana state. When KCR the chief of TRS went through an indefinite fast, U.P.A govt quickly went into a huddle to avert a major riot in Telangana, came out and announced that it will start work on the bifurcation. But the hue and cry raised by the Costa and Seema leaders and the staged protests by the people left the govt aghast and scrambling to retract their statement in less than a week. This 180 degree turn by the politicians indeed took every one by surprise. Firstly the politicians never thought that their bluff would be called by the U.P.A. Govt and secondly they did not expect the ire of their constituents. Now, the central govt is confused and is dilly dallying the issue even as Telangana leaders threaten the govt with a deadline for Jan 28.
The differences continue to be raised and magnified in the mean time. The fight for political sovereignty, water rights, resource allocation, and administrative control have now gone beyond that, and the same people who used to co-exist peacefully are back biting and telling each other they are different in culture, language as well. They spar over how there was emasculation, belittling of their culture (mainly the Telanganites point the blame at Coastal/Seema people) They fling hundreds of reasons at each other why they should separate or not separate. No one listens or comprehends the other persons debates or arguments whether they are factual or made up, but the rebuttals come instantaneously. Telangana people claim that the Andhra dominated movie industry does not depict any locations from Telangana regions citing that it is always A for Amalapuram in Andhra but not A for Adilabad in Telangana or A for Ananthapur in Seema and B for Bheemavaram in Andhra and not B for Bonagiri in Nalgonda. The examples given are many saying that the hero always hails from Andhra, speaks with Andhra accent, and the Telangana guy ends up being the villain or comedian. The dubbing is all done in chaste Coastal accent and Telangana accent is laughed upon.
The Andhra people claim that Telangana leaders were the useless leaders and that they are more educated and more entrepreneurial while Telangana people are feudal and backward.
Telangana people accuse that Costa and Seema migrants to Hyderabad never integrated into the society but instead cocooned themselves in their expensive bungalows in Banjara Hills and Jubilee Hills.
The biggest squabble is about the land grabbing/land mafia in the Greater Hyderabad. Telanganites point the figure at Mr. Naidu and Mr. Reddy the last two chief ministers who sold the govt and wakf lands at almost nothing to their kith and kin. Now those lands are worth in millions. Mr. Lagadapati, the son-in-law of a cabinet minister Upendra Parvathaneni’s worth is considered to be $1 Billion. The Lanco Hills property of Mr. Lagadapati lies in Manikonda that was alleged to have been grabbed illegally.
As the time progresses, it is getting worse and worse. Even people who were neutral before are taking a stance for or against Telangana.
Why is the division becoming so hard for the U.P.A govt when BJP successfully bifurcated three states in the recent past? What will happen on January 28? Will all the parties in Telangana come together and announce their resignations or will they squabble amongst themselves as usual and put aside the movement?
Will the Telangana Rashtra Samiti party be adjusting and be a consensus player? So far it has exhibited remarkable control considering that K. Chandra Shekhar Rao, a firebrand with a caustic and wayward tongue is at its helm. However, his daughter landed in trouble when she started telling the Telangana supporters to stop the movies by the unified Andhra Pradesh proponents. This irked some of the Greater Hyderabad elected representatives and some movie goers. The opinion was divided amongst the common man about the banning and blocking of the movie. The rift between TRS and Congress became apparent when Congress ministers Mukesh Goud, Danam Nagender clearly sided with their constituents who comprised mostly of Andhra and Seema migrants.TRS in turn accused them of appeasing the costa/seema sentiments.
Another silent spectator is Marri Shashidhar Reddy, who seemed to want to stay away from the mess. His father Marri Chenna Reddy is considered as a betrayer of Telangana by his peers belonging to Telangana Praja Samiti who defeated Congress in 1969 with thumping majority. TPS as it was known had a single item in its manifesto. ‘Bifurcation of Telangana from Andhra Pradesh’. After the election, Mr. Chenna Reddy was believed to have succumbed to Congress’s bribe, the chief minister post.
MIM, a Muslim political party won 7 seats in Hyderabad (old city) area. They fare extremely well amongst the 35 lakhs of Muslims in Hyderabad. They want a piece of the pie as well. Their main worry is that if Congress doesn’t give into the desires of the Telangana people, Congress may suffer an ignominious defeat in the elections and BJP may come to power. BJP, a party that favors Hindus raises fear and doubt in the Muslims.
That leaves TDP, Telugu Desam Party which is headed by Chandra babu Naidu, the ex chief minister of Andhra pradesh hailing from Andhra/Seema area who is said to have been a front runner in the Jai Andhra movement in the seventies. Although his party is divided vertically on the Telangana issue, majority of the Telanganites express doubts on the leadership. TDP has aspirations to be a national party, and is hoping that under Mr. Naidu it will have a stake in both the states.
Mega star, Chiranjeevi’s Praja Rajyam Party (PRP) has lost all its base in Telangana and became irrelevant in the struggle, since they have only one assemblyman from that region. Seeing the writing on the wall, Chiru as he is known moved his base to Costa and sided with the Samaikhya Andhra movement.
While the U.P.A govt considers its game plan, the chasm between the Andhra/Seema people within Hyderabad has become deeper and the tensions have become tauter. The talk in clubs, during the basketball, cricket games, in the kittie parties revolves around Telangana.
When hate is increasing between the two groups and neither is willing to back down, doesn’t it make more send and grant them a divorce on the grounds of irreconcilable differences?

Konda Reddy
Jan 16, 2010 @ 14:03:54
Hallo Sheena Roy
I am glad to read at least one article written on this website without bias and thank you for writing such an article. Unless we grow out of our prejudices, we can not find a better future. Born in Rayalaseema, few KMs away from Telangana border and growing up in Hyderabad since I was three years old and being away from India for some time, I am first an Indian and neutral in the case of current issue.
The major problem we have is our politicians. They are interested only in selfish motives and they really do not care of issues. If there is any injustice for Telangana, it can not be rectified even in separate Telangana unless its politicians are forced to change. The second problem is extremists. Anywhere in the world, few people will be loud and active and whereas the majority is just silent. I do not think that few loud people, who are for or against separate Telanga represent the silent majority. The third problem is bias. Most of us want to see and enlarge our point of view but do not try to see all the facts neutrally. There was a sensible statement from a AP politician that there should declaration of the facts districtwise (income and expenditure etc)but nobody bothered about it. I think we should find the facts for every district and any injustice whether a district is in Telangana or outside must be corrected. The fourth problem is Hyderabad. As you rightly said the issue is not a separate Telangana but the status of Hyderabad. Some time ago, I read that the government is considering to make Hyderabad a union territory and Shad Nagar the new capital of Telangana. On the surface it may look as a bad proposition for Telangana but if one looks at facts it has its merits. Hyderabad is an old city and it is difficult to make it a modern city (think of those narrow roads planned few hundred years ago). But if Shad Nagar (or preferably an area close to it) is made a new capiital, not just Shad Nagar but the whole area between Hyderabad and Shad Nagar will develope. If Hyderabad is made an union territory, still it is in Telangana and the people from Telangana actually profit from its new status.
One positive development is that the center is not imposing their decision on AP people and is trying to find a solution through discussions. Hopefully a solution acceptable to all can be found.
@ konda reddy
Jan 16, 2010 @ 15:57:40
Hi konda reddy everyone of us know that the politicians needs to change but the problems faced by farmers in telangana have only one solution that is a separate state i guess you are not aware of laws related to water in our country their is distribution of water law only between states but not between the regions inside same state.
As the andhra side has 123 MLA they form the key to decide the CM post hence they get majority share in water resources available to AP and coming to rayalaseema as we all know was given great respect in last few years because both of our previous CM's are from this region so what about telangana do how long do we have to wait before we get our share of water, but if we have a separate state we will our rightful share in the waters of krishna and godavari.
sandeep
Jan 16, 2010 @ 17:22:32
Hello Konda Reddy
how can we declare Hyderabad as Union Territory when it is in the centre of telangana region,As per the UT Meaning it should lie in the centre of Andhra and Telangana regions. If we have a look at the map ,the andhra regions are 200kms away from hyderabad then how can we say it as UT?
but before making Hyderabad as UT there are many cities like Banglore,chennai,calcutta,Mumbai which will come into consideration.
Sai
Jan 16, 2010 @ 17:36:27
@ ALL
If Hyderabad becomes UT ,then it would be much helpful to surrounding Telangana districts.. both Industrially and commercially. Take example of Delhi as UT.. Noida has become the industrial hub due to bounded UT limits of Delhi.!
BTW I am native Hyderabadi we are being here since time of Nizams..having no connection with either surrounding Telangana districts or Andhra … but I would be comfortable and happy to see Hyderabad in Telangana, further all these years it was pain for us to address someone else region as our state's name AP .
We speak Telangana..and follow culture of Telangana in short it would be fine if we preserve the original identity of Telangana.
Joe
Jan 16, 2010 @ 18:30:40
Hyderabad as UT? No way Man!! Why should Hyderabad be a UT? Just because there are a few folks from SeemaAndhra living here?
Most people will be OK with a shared capital of Hyderabad until the SeemaAndhra region builds its own capital city.
Folks, Please do not entertain any thoughts of Hyderabad as a UT. The SeemaAndhra guys will stoop to any level to try and keep control over Telangana
SYED ABDULMUQTADIR
Jan 16, 2010 @ 18:32:05
Sai, well said, Hyderabad was and is and will be part of Telangana, there will no compromise on this issue. We can neither share this city nor leave this city.
sandeep
Jan 16, 2010 @ 18:35:14
@Joe
Do you think the shared capital concept works? I doubt that because we cannot assure that even after few years they are going to leave hyderabad.. they will come up with same statements saying we have invested our money,companies and lands blah blah..So not even shared capital works..declare telangana and make hyderabad as capital let them do what ever they want to
Konda Reddy
Jan 16, 2010 @ 22:21:58
Hello all
Firstly I thank you all very much that no bad language was used against my comments.
If I belong to Telangana, naturally I wish that Hyderabad is a part of Telangana only. If I belong to Seemandhra, I wish that Hyderabad is Union Territory. As I wrote before I belong to both places and I am trying to see the issues as neutrally as possible.
The central government is asking all the parties (I do not mean political parties) to come to an understanding. I do not see a possibility of separate Telangana, Hyderabad as its capital because Seemandhra does not agree to it. When one wants something, one should be willing to pay the price. In my opinion, if one wants to have a separate Telangana, one must sacrifice Hyderabad. But it has its own merits.
I believe Telangana actually profits by agreeing to have Hyderabad as an UT. As per my understandng, UT only means that it does not belong to a particular state but belongs to the whole country. If Hyderabad is a UT, another district in Telangana gets an opportunity to become a capital city and to develop like Hyderabad. As Hyderabad is surrounded by Telangana, it profits from the new status of Hyderabad as Hyderabad would be enriched by not just AP but by all parts of the country. Hyderabad may even get an pportunity to become a second capital of India.
At the end of the day, we are not interested in a piece of land, called Hyderabad but the benefits we get from it. In my opinion (I may be wrong) Telangana should actually propose to have Hyderabad as an Union Territory as it is in the interest of Telangana. Of course this requires to get rid of the ego that Hyderabad belongs to Telangana only.
I welcome constructive comments / criticism from every body
Konda Reddy
Jan 16, 2010 @ 22:35:55
Hi all
Any injustice to a district, it must be corrected, whether it belongs to Telangana or Seemandhra.
Personally I do not think that a separate Telangana will be the ONLY ANSWER to all the issues, mentioned in this website. A separate Telangana will address few issues but there will be new issues too. I am not saying that there should be no separate Telangana at all.
So far as we only blame others without trying to find out our faults and correct ourselves, a change does not come (I do not mean anything against Telangana).
Konda Reddy
Jan 16, 2010 @ 23:08:28
One of you mentioned above that Seemandhra has majority of MLAs so they dominated Telangana.
If it is so, how come none of the Telangana MLAs brought those issues to the attention of people or center and fought for those issues. Why they only discuss about separate Telangana but not about the solutions to those issues.
Among the three partners in AP, Rayalaseema is the smallest and weakest. As the capital is moved from Kurnool to Hyderabad, the real loosers were people from Kurnool and Rayalaseema. I get the impression that Rayalaseema got a bad deal in a combined AP but they are not complaining. Please do not tell me that Rayalaseema and Coastal Andhra are together conspiring against Telangana.
If there is any injustice done to Telangana, I would make the Telangana politicians responsible for it as they did not fight against such injustice and they did not take their responsibilities seriously.
As I wrote before, a separate Telangana does not solve all the issues (I am not saying that you should not demand for a separate Telangana). In my opinion, Telangana people should fight for their rights. Until then a separate Telangana or not makes no difference.
swetha
Jan 17, 2010 @ 04:31:09
Hyderabad is an integral part of telangana..and it remains the capital city of Telangana…there is no discussion needed on this
Shashank
Jan 17, 2010 @ 05:33:31
Ayya Mr.Konda Reddy,
It looks like you are in the dream of building castles in the air. What is the bad deal you got ?You have eyed on Telangana, because Hyderabad has well laid infrastructure and established buildings for well deserved capital city.
Did you know that Andhra state had a seperate budget for preventing the files to be eaten away from rats, insects etc?.That was the position of Andhra before 1956. You have not done any " meherbaan" to Telangana. Please remember this. It is out of your selfish motives in the name of " united telugu" you have bitched the wishes of Telangana people.
Seperate state is the only solution for Telangana region.
To answer you question in the first paragraph, we have been fighting for the solution of issues, like 610 G.O, pothireddy padu river schedme, polavaram projects, krishna, godavari river water shares, mulki rules, land kabjas, farmers loands etc. Where did those happen ?What happened to 6 point formula, 8point formula, the then Gentlemen's agreement.
It is after all these exploitation from Andhra rulers we have decided that seperate state is the only solution. We have some doubts before merger itself and now after 50years it is the experience.
Please leave our state to us and read the facts before you publish any articles. Infact we welcome you to stay in Telangana and do business etc, have fun!! But
we request you " Hamara pet mein math maar".
raghu
Jan 17, 2010 @ 06:19:14
Mr.Kondareddy
Whish issue you want the TELANGANA mlas to fight.
610 G.O. implementation past 26 years,
uncompletion of SriramSagar project, stopping baabliproject etc etc etc which issue did our leaders did not fight. Can you name any which we are mentioning here. Did ever ever they got succeeded? Answer is NO because "Seemandhra has majority of MLAs so they dominated Telangana"
Jai Telangana
raghu
Jan 17, 2010 @ 06:25:19
and one more thing mr kondareddy u see any any discussion on TELANGANA in the entire web u the see how the PROTELANGANA people are talking. and how the TELANGANA OPPONENTS are abusing. You checkout the ratio of abuses will be 98:2. And they still talk of unity wat an idealogy?
Jai Telangana
Sheena Roy
Jan 17, 2010 @ 06:30:29
Hi Guys: thanks for your responses for the article.
Mr. Konda Reddy: I strongly oppose the creation of Hyderabad as Union Territory. Various reasons for it.
When I said that there are irreconcilable differences, I meant it. Main reason being Hyderabad as U.T.
Hyderabad is and will always belong to Telangana region, or Telangana will belong to Hyderabad. It doesn't matter what people called it before.
Hyderabad gets drinking water from surrounding Telangana districts, why would they give water to the U.T, that doesn't belong to them?
Greater Hyderabad as it's called today is created from five districts from Telangana. They have basically incorporated parts of the districts into Hyderabad. Why would Telangana give all that land up?
Hyderabad can not be a U.T because it is right smack in the middle of Telangana.
What is a better compromise is for 1-2 years, Hyderabad is a shared capital until the new capital is created within Costa/Seema districts.
Dr.vinod kumar reddy
Jan 17, 2010 @ 06:35:52
@kondareddy
If rayalaseema is NOT developing its bcz of your local leaders policy..You go and ask them…shifting kurnool capital to hyderabad is also a selfish motive. You have special budget for PIGS and u had TENTS as Govt offices…At that time only HYD is highly developed with name all over world.So u got eye on Assembly building at that time used as some shelter for horses(if am correct). So it reflects how rich was HYD…
If AP was NOT formed HYD could be TOP most city in the WORLD.
We TG have many brillainat administrators and genius doctors,engineers,IAS,IPS but with political seat power seemandhra is dominating us and our Previous CMs was also under seemandhra lobby pressure.
Andhra region people want to eat more and more so they dont want hyd to go with TG..and rayalaseema region are showing just jeolousy on HYD…its bad for u people health…u develop ur region and we support for that but TG will form and HYD is heart of TG and its in centre of TG state.
Regards
Dr.Vinod Reddy
Jai TG
Jai TG
Jai TG
Dr.vinod kumar reddy
Jan 17, 2010 @ 06:43:17
@ KONDA REDDY
Andhra(SELFISH) + Rayalaseema( JEOLOUS)
The above both regions are dominating Telangana(INNOCENT)
NOTE that we NO longer will be INNOCENT and we teach lesson to SELFISH & JEOLOUS people.
Here People refelects only who oppose TG state but NOT all people of seemandhra.
Majority of VIJAYAWADA supports TG formation bcz VIJAYAWADA can be capital of seemandhra then.
so am targeting only people opposing TG state but NOT all.
I am targetting people like KONDAREDDY
Kondareddy knows all facts and Truth but he is acting too smart( jeolous)
At least now be friendly and lets support reasonable demand of TG
Venu Oddiraju
Jan 17, 2010 @ 15:05:44
Konda Reddy, The Telangana leaders fought for issues concerning Telangana but due to their majority the Andhra leaders never let them succeed. So out of frustration, the Telangana people agitate and everytime this happens Andhra leaders supress their agitation by force and propose new agreements for development and then totally violate those agreements. Part of the problem is with our Telangana leaders also, but with the current set up, there is no hope for Telangana and it is only going to be ruined further. How long can Telangana people wait for justice? At least, if things are improving from the past we can wait but they are only deteriorating further so it is unwise to wait any further.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8fef1oKTsjs
a telanganite
Jan 18, 2010 @ 08:38:59
konda reddy,
is hyderabad u r property so that u r proposing a ut status for it.hyderabad is built with the sweat and blood of our fore-fathers,understood? there more and more like u in hyderabad and all will be taught alesson, if u ppl dont see reason. right buddy! u r lucky a polite and decent language only is used here.